• Glowing Up

    Have you experienced your “glow up” yet!? No, I am not talking about the kind where you get 3” taller, the braces come off, and you change your hairstyle… I’m talking about the far more important kind that starts in your mind. Truth is, the real “glow up” isn’t physical. It happens when you finally stop settling, people pleasing, and compromising your boundaries! The real “glow up” is when you wholeheartedly recognize your worth. If you’re constantly undervaluing what you do, the world will follow suit and undervalue who you are. Bitch please, we can NOT have that! You have to set aside the doubts that creep in, and learn…

  • 2022 is YOUR year

    I don’t know who needs to hear this, but your life does not get better by chance, it gets better by change! Let’s be honest, the scariest place to find yourself today is exactly where you were last year (figuratively speaking)... So if you’ve been feeling unhappy & unfulfilled lately, you’re going to have to make moves, darling. The clock will NOT strike midnight and suddenly you’re made anew! Letting life pass you by while you sit around waiting for a miracle is no longer an option. No matter what rough patch you’re going through right now; mentally/physically/emotionally–remember that it’s temporary. You HAVE to stop being so damn hard on…

  • Prioritizing ME

    We’re gonna start off today with a little exercise! (not the burpee kind, don’t worry) I want you to make a mental list… Note 5 things that you LOVE most in this world–GO! Can be anything or anyone you want. Now, tell me if YOU are on that list? Amongst the “sunny weather, coffee with friends, favorite movie” was there room for little ole you anywhere? If not, go back. Reassess the list and prioritize yourself please! People learn by example; so if you’re not showing them how to best love and care for you, how will they achieve such a task?  Self-care is such a hot topic these days,…

  • Change Starts Within

    “You can’t go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending.” They say the secret to your success is found in your daily routine. Making small changes will result in big differences! You just have to decide that you’re tired of the old and ready for the new. Much like the resolutions we discussed last week, making actual change in yourself and your life won’t be EASY. It’ll take effort, dedication, and strength! But you have to realize that you deserve the positive outcome ahead; and remember, not all positive change will feel positive in the beginning. Usually the first step is…

  • Daily Affirmations

    Socrates said, “The secret of change is to focus all of your energy, not on fighting the old, but on building the new.” Repeatedly tearing down our minds and bodies does not heal the wounds, it only deepens them. When we take the time to commit ourselves to change and growth, we will become stronger. It’s so much easier said than done, but it truly begins in OUR hearts & OUR minds first. When we believe in ourselves, others will too! Your possibilities are endless, but only if you take action to accomplish them. And trust me, I KNOW YOU CAN! To be honest, telling you that I talk to…

  • Body Image & Self-Love (part 2)

    “Another person’s beauty is not the absence of our own.” I felt like this was a good quote to start with because today, that’s what we’re focusing on. Comparison is a nasty game to get into…no one plays fair, there’s lies, flags and fouls on the field…and the ref has to blow their whistle a few too many times. Now, I’m no sports fan, but I can promise you–that’s NOT something I want to get roped into! When we choose to compare, the one that takes the fall becomes ourselves. Teaching our minds that we are not good enough, and that someone else is “better.” Let’s face it; LIFE IS…